If you’ve experienced sexual assault or sexual trauma, Tantra workshops and de-armouring practices and yoni massage might not be safe for you. Read my blogs to learn more, and get my advice on overcoming anorgasmia and vaginal numbness and whether vibrators and jade eggs are useful in self-pleasure. You’ll also learn more about female ejaculation (squirting), g spot orgasms and cervical orgasms.
If you’ve experienced sexual assault or sexual trauma, Tantra workshops and de-armouring practices and yoni massage might not be safe for you. Read my blogs to learn more, and get my advice on overcoming anorgasmia and vaginal numbness and whether vibrators and jade eggs are useful in self-pleasure. You’ll also learn more about female ejaculation (squirting), g spot orgasms and cervical orgasms.
The terms “de-armouring”, “yoni massage” and “mapping” tend to be used interchangeably, when in fact they’re all different techniques and modalities (though even some practitioners don’t seem clear on this, which causes a lot of confusion)
I get all sorts of messages from people asking about squirting.
Normally it’s women asking whether every woman can squirt, and how to do it.
So this is my reply, having worked with SO many women and folks with vulvas over the years…
Yoni Massage is such a powerful modality, and in the hands of a *skilled, safe practitioner* it’s possible to undergo incredible healing and transformation. I know, because as an ex-practitioner and someone who’s trained many bodyworkers, I’ve seen it often.
I know I bang on about this a lot, but pleasure and orgasm isn’t a luxury – it’s essential for our wellbeing and it’s also a VERY good barometer of when things are out of balance.
*gently* hold space for whatever’s there to be witnessed, loved, welcomed and gently moved through.
A jade egg can be great if you need to increase pelvic floor strength and suppleness.
You’re packed in a room with a bunch of strangers. You’re delving into ALL kinds of stuff – childhood wounds, intimacy patterns, sexual blocks, ALL that murky stuff. They pump the music loud and you do some practice. You feel uncomfortable, it’s an edge. But hey, you’re here to learn, right?
Q: “I’m in an intimate relationship, is it still important for me to self-pleasure as well? I’m really enjoying the sensuality of dancing, movement, self-touch etc… but feel like when I’m in the mood I much prefer the process with him”
If a woman isn’t experiencing a certain type of orgasm there can be MANY factors.
ONE of which is trust – female orgasm can take time, patience and trust in the connection, especially when it comes to deeper orgasms. It might be that these women aren’t feeling safe or relaxed enough with this dude – it doesn’t mean they’re “shut down”
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