I get all sorts of messages from people asking about squirting.
Normally it’s women asking whether every woman can squirt, and how to do it.
So this is my reply, having worked with SO many women and folks with vulvas over the years…

*gently* hold space for whatever’s there to be witnessed, loved, welcomed and gently moved through.

If a woman isn’t experiencing a certain type of orgasm there can be MANY factors.

ONE of which is trust – female orgasm can take time, patience and trust in the connection, especially when it comes to deeper orgasms. It might be that these women aren’t feeling safe or relaxed enough with this dude – it doesn’t mean they’re “shut down”